Today I felt guided & inspired to offer thoughts & solution focused awareness on that dreaded feeling & word we hate; called "REJECTION". NO ONE likes feeling like a reject, nor being rejected.
I have observed this topic come up alot with my Clairvoyant clients in their relationships & work etc. I am starting to wonder why the shift? & focus around this? ... so here are my guided thoughts ...
As my pic says: "Rejection is nothing more than a lesson & a necessary step towards the road to SUCCESS"
Take it from me, after 7 years of facing REJECTION on a daily basis in the Entertainment Industry as a Model, TV Host, Actor, Singer & wannabe Contortionist (totally not my forte, but one can wish???) ... anyways, back to reality Sam ... I can safely say I have experience on how to GROW, EVOLVE & HAPPILY USE "REJECTION" as a POWER TOOL.
Here's a little excerpt from today's Backstage Magazine article (Entertainment Mag known amongst the Hollywood Entertainment Peeps) by Marci Liroff, a well known Hollywood Casting Director & her insight on rejection - divine timing as I put this piece together:-
“Actors are some of the most driven, courageous people on the face of the earth. They deal with more day-to-day rejection in one year than most people do in a lifetime. Every day, actors face the financial challenge of living a freelance lifestyle, the disrespect of people who think they should get real jobs, and their own fear that they’ll never work again. Every day, they have to ignore the possibility that the vision they have dedicated their lives to is a pipe dream.
Hollywood is very transient & have had squillions of people come through with disappointment & dreams not realised. As the above mentioned paragraph states, there will most definitely be a period(s) of financial challenge for most Entertainment peeps, living this freelance lifestyle. Trust me, i've been there, done that & it ain't pretty folks & yes SCARY AS ALL HELL & i've had to hustle my behind like nobody's business, even borrowed money from my lil brother once - true story, not fun !!! Thankfully, i've come to the other side of the rainbow, figuratively & spiritually speaking *wink* & have a thriving & growing spiritual business that compliments my Entertainment work like the perfect marriage & ALL is GREAT!!! When one can explore, have amazing life experiences & live life on one's own terms, life becomes such an adventure of FUN, hope, love, miracles & blessings happening all day, everyday.
The patterns I have identified with clients is that they have a belief system that does not serve them successfully & lovingly OR they just don't have a belief system in place & they live life on a typical "trial & error" type of way, most people do, until life slaps them with an awakening & then awareness starts to shift & the internal work takes place. YASSSSS, we can be proactive & learn how to avoid certain crazy life challenges.
HERE IS SOMETHING SUPER SIMPLE & EASY TO FOLLOW:-
If you ask yourself these simple questions regarding "REJECTION" no matter what type of rejection, you will gain to benefit & grow: 1. What is this here to teach me? 2. How can I grow & improve from this? 3. What could I have done better? ... once you have your answers, then SURRENDER the whole experience to The Universe / God / Allah / Source / The Divine / Donald Duck (kidding), let's not take it so serious .... it doesn't matter what we call it, just the process of learning the lesson, then surrendering it, will have you feeling at peace, balanced & aligned. Make this your HABBIT & you will see that rejection will start to feel less & less like rejection & more like an opportunity to grow & be blessed, it truly works, I now don't even see rejection, it's more "WHAT'S THIS HEAR TO TEACH ME" & I always feel elated by getting the LESSON, being present & living it's truth & moving onto the "NEXT RIGHT STEP" ... if I can do it & I can get my clients to successfully do it, you can too ... get it !!! be it !!! do it !!!